You might like a good Montessori preschool if there's one in your area. When our oldest was 3, we decided on Montessori b/c I am gifted and hubby has adhd and possibly gifted. We knew that whether gifted or ADHD or both, she'd be well served in that type of environment until she was ready for school and we could determine if we should continue w/ Montessori or explore otherwise. Our pediatrician recommended we send her to Montessori b/c it's a good environment for gifted chidlren.