I couldn't have said what you just said any better, you are so eloquent, I just get frustrated and swear!

The school has many limitations. Even when they know your child needs more they cannot admit it to you in many cases because they don't have the resources so what's the point of igniting litigation.

I went through a big stage where I was distraught, looking everywhere for that genuis on genuises who was supposed to tell me what to do so that my children would grow up happy and healthy and well educated in spite of the fact they didn't quite fit.

Thank God, I finally found that person by

looking in the mirror, aside from not being a genius myself, I am the expert on my children. Oh, and my husband too, of course!