If she is hesitant about homeschooling, I would lean towards sending her to school and then pulling out if it's not going well.

i think the only way I'd force a kid into homeschooling (personally) is if I thought the school environment was actually harming them psychologically, as in causing the anxiety, depression, etc and I couldn't figure out how to make it better.

See how things go w/ different teachers, classes, etc. and then maybe there will be clarity as to the best choice.