aeh and indigo, thanks so much for your advice, it is very inspiring!
My problem is that I am a terrible role model in that respect. I try to model a good way to act in front of her but I am the worst possible person for not self-advocating! Her father, however, has no problems in that respect although he may be too much the other way.
I'm seeking some guidance for myself right now through a psychological evaluation so that I may better guide my children but I will definitely be heeding your advice and looking into the information that you have provided. Thanks!
