So dd met the psych today and spent 1 1/2 hours playing with Legos and drawing pictures. I tried to eavesdrop but the stupid white noise machine made it impossible. Testing is tomorrow. I am thinking I am crazy and should probably be spending the money on a trauma-informed therapist who specializes in adoption/loss related issues. I need to be the one on the couch. Almost started crying yesterday during parent intake because it has been really hard, ya'll. with this kid, emotionally intense HG older dd, and DS with developmental disabilities. Anyway, wish us luck tomorrow that dd will be cooperative. At least we will get some questions answered and it should shed some light on which direction to proceed.