So, I'm talking to private school admission representatives. And, I'm going in being honest. I just don't want to waste my time on situations that won't work.

Its been interesting. Some common statements:

--We don't like homogeneous classrooms because it makes one group of kids think they are better than the others.

--smart kids sometimes think they are better than others, so we really want to avoid that for him.

--there are lots of very gifted kids here, so he will have a peer group.

--the teachers will differentiate here with reading assignments.

--most people say our school is academically ahead of the other schools, so he will get what he needs.

--Most people find that the classes are much harder than they anticipate so rushing a kid ahead usually backfires down the road. So, we don't like to do that.

--middle school is a time of great change so it is more important to work on character than academics.

Have others heard these? What is your take-away with these statements? Any red flags or warnings I should heed?

Thanks!