I ordered the re-forming gt after a previous post... cannot wait should be here in days... am optimistic is may have some real options for us. HS won't work for me and other books focus on the perfect options but with no self contained available what's a girl to do.
grinity: in the end how much weight to you give the social end if you have a HG/PG kid even if they are on the lower end of the class in terms of maturity (but not below all in class) - long-term most research seems to green light it (of course i worry about the 2% it doesn't).
I love the line in Ruf's about a mom who prepared in volume to meet with school so they wouldn't know more than her only to find out that wasn't very hard. but again... i'm not saying that's the case in all places.
