I am waiting!! I will give the poor teacher a break before "educating" her. Although we had our first forgetful incident this morning, the second morning of school, sigh. DD told me, in front of the teacher, that I forgot the book. The teacher, gently, said it was her responsibility. Ha! I knew that it was just the first of a thousand incidents of forgetfulness that would occur. Also, DD is in a magnet school and has AIG and SSA, so like middle or high school, DD has numerous classrooms and teachers. I am realizing that this is going to be even more tricky than I realized!! In fact, her homeroom teacher forget to send her to her 5th grade math class yesterday. I talked to both teachers this morning to make sure that she gets to the right class today.
I think that I will pull together 2E information for the teacher vs. just going at it as an ADHD info session. Good idea.