Take your DD to the prospective schools for tours and see what she thinks. My DS who was resistant to change sat through the tours, participated in classroom activities, attended a meeting with admissions director where they showed him what curriculum they covered and he changed his mind and wanted to go to the private school I had chosen. He also met 3 other boys during that orientation and became friends with them. He remembers his old friends fondly, but does not regret the change at all.
So, try to involve your DD as much as possible and take her input into consideration.
