Oh yes--I've definitely talked with her about how it appears *to others*, the feelings people feel when she uses this body language, and how other people do not feel as she does about this. However, as her parent, I think it is okay for me not to always insist on eye contact in intense conversations. It's a lot to ask of her, it seems. We're working on cueing it in "easy" discussions first. She actually asked me to use a cue word to remind her when talking to other people, so she is somewhat on board with being reminded.
Watching for it in TV is a good idea, although she doesn't watch muhc TV/movies (not of much interest to her).
