I have no suggestions I am afraid but I do sympathise. Just because my daughter is top of the class (or second top or something) noone can see her problems. she has a language disorder affecting reading, writing and speaking, she has a serious hypermobility problem, a visual problem, poor spatial and depth perception, quite dyspraxic qualities in many ways with coordination issues and is very bright. It must make life extremely frustrating for her and I find it difficult. How to get the school to stretch her and support her rather than just assume the current level is ok because she has problems to deal with too.