hnz1979, have you tried looking for a parent advocate in your area? There are groups that provide this service for free in many states. Even if they aren't located in your immediate area you might be able to get advice over the phone that would be helpful for your meeting with the school. I found our advocate's group through the yellow pages at wrightslaw, and they were beyond helpful with simple things such as giving me the correct way to phrase questions and requests for the things I needed to communicate at school meetings. They also helped make me aware of what services were available at our ds' school and what our school was legally required to provide in evals and services etc - when our school was claiming no knowledge of anything
Good luck with your meeting Friday!
polarbear
