We've not even tried the public schools yet (three different private ones, with one relocation between K and 1st). I called our local school, heard they didn't really do anything until 3rd grade and didn't bother visiting. We need to go visit now that DS is going to be in third grade next year, but honestly, I don't know that with a PG kid, it's going to be worth the effort to even do that until we get closer to middle school.

We are in a state that has legislation and some funding. Raising these children and working takes all the energy we have... although I entertain fantasies about advocacy (beyond our own situation) someday.