Remind her that "smart kid" is neither untrue or offensive...
I agree.
On the other hand, anything which is said as a distinction, pointing out a difference, or creating a divide between ones' self an others can be
painful. In general, people want to find things in common with others, they want to have a sense of belonging and acceptance.
Unfortunately, kids can and do "stop being smart" by underachieving to blend in. It comes with a host of social-emotional problems. While the high IQ may remain, if not channeled into positive achievement and accomplishment, without guidance that vast mental energy may turn negative.
apm221, your child sounds as though she may be DYS level? With middle school just a few years away, just for fun, you may want to begin researching what may be available locally as far as university partnerships with your local middle school or high school.
ColinsMum, great idea, the books need to be accessible.
