My DS just turned 10. I was here a lot when he was younger and I was trying to figure things out. Then when he went to kindergarten, I went to work full time. For the most part, I am here less frequently because we found a good fit school for our son. Plus we're much busier than when he was younger. I do try to visit to give BTDT advice when appropriate, since people helped me so much when I had questions. I wish I had more time.