That's true. Up to a point. 4-H means teenagers, who are rather notorious for their narcissistic, moody, sociopathic tendencies at the best of times.

All of the work and angst of room mom with little of the associated prestige, let's just say, and the same parental push/gracelessness to go with it.

Oh, sure, we'll rearrange EVERYTHING for the other ten kids so that your precious Princess can play volleyball and come to each meeting... of course we will... even though Princess has made it clear that she regards everyone else here as being somewhat below "Road Kill" on her list of disgusting things she'd rather not have anything to do with... but sure. whistle

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.