We had a really good conference. Her teacher was surprised that we were so dismayed by the report card and said that it just shows room for growth.
The math problem is on the way to being solved but my husband and I discovered that we don't really appreciate the style of the math teacher. We were offered the chance to move dd into 3rd grade math which only has 10 students (dreamy class size!) or have her remain in 4th. We really just want a new math teacher! Not that it is going to happen...
We're doing the Big Brainz at home, I ordered Beast Academy and found a teenaged calculus student to mentor dd. We should be on the right track!