I have no clear picture of what she needs to learn and what she has mastered. Thank you, EM! /sarcasm
I will certainly ask the teacher for help figuring out what it is she still needs help mastering. I know she is fuzzy on her times tables. She claims they are too much work to memorize and that music won't help her learn them.

I will definitely think about the 2e thing. My ds is 2e and it wouldn't be unreasonable to think that dd is too. I think she tends towards the ADD side but she has coped so well that I never pursued it. I should probably take some time and see if that is compounding her issues now.

I love this little girl so much, I wish I could do more for her, I wish I could make this all go away and have her life be like it was last year.