So after lots more research I have finally figured out what is holding me up and making me nervous. I am stuck on what my/our style is. This is making it hard for me to figure out how/what I want to teach.

I want the classical approach (maybe I'm overwhelmed but the CM and WTM are confusing) but I like other methods as well. I'm unsure how to incorporate these and DD get the "standard" education if she were to return to school in later years.