Well, to be fair, there are lots of people that are happy for DD. Plus at least 4 other kids get to benefit! Their parents are real happy!
It's just that I'm really sensitive to the negativity and I tend to "see" that more when dealing with these issues.
Quite frankly most people are probably totally oblivious!
It's just those few who seem to have such a problem with it get under my skin.
I'm sure these feelings stem from my gifted denial childhood. But, I've come a long way and a lot of that has to do with the support from this forum!