{nodding}

Exactly. We've reshaped our family's interests/leisure activities to some extent to accommodate having a HG+ child.

We forgo some more normative (but $$) activities in order to save that cash for other purposes. We realized at some point that normative wasn't really on the table for her to start with, and that we were spending a lot of time, $$, and energy on window dressing.


Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.