HappilyMom- I know this sounds dumb, but I never thought of enlisting ds to help make a list of goals for VT. I'm going to do that with him today. Thanks for the idea:) yes, ds just finished k. That's great that there's a place so close to school for you. I have had such a pleasant experience with this office; and therefore want to stay with them.

I guess I'm thinking about next year, because I don't want his teacher to have expectations he can't meet and then make him feel bad about it. However, I guess I won't know till mid- July (school starts August 1st).