Thank you. I actually called the neuropsych earlier in the week to see if he thought a scan was warranted. Though thinking about it now, I'm not sure that knowing that we had a TBI issue going on would really change much.

I think I may be getting down to the nitty-gritty of the issues on my own, so maybe we'll just have to go with what we presently know and see if we can find things to help him ourselves. It's just been so difficult getting to this place because of the self-education that's had to take place and the ever-changing, multifaceted nature of ds' issues. I think that I was hoping to find someone who really understood ds' struggles and could say 'yea' or 'nay' --you know, something concrete, and something accurate. I just don't like the idea of assuming it's one thing and wasting even more time, but... you do what you have to do, I suppose, and keep moving forward. wink