I may be completely wrong here, but the socks and jeans thing - any chance that is coordination and not just sensory. One of the first indicators I had that my son had a fine motor coordination was a resistance to wearing socks, shirts that buttoned and jeans - all which required coordination to put on or off, he definitely has a bit of the sensory stuff, too, but your comment triggered that memory so thought I'd throw it out there,

~Lisa
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