Don't have much to add but my personal experience. My DS9 is PG and begged to be homeschooled starting in 1st grade. He was a rule follower/pleaser who was bored. It wasn't until 2nd that I fully explored the idea. In 3rd we put him in a private for gifted. This year (4th) we are finally homeschooling. Many times these kids really do know what's best for them. Good luck.

~SDMom
Every step taken is on the right path even if we don't know exactly where it will take us.