Just wanted to give an update since you were so helpful to us.
We got DS9 talk to another psychologist and after a couple of sessions was diagnosed with mild ADHD Inattentive type along with anxiety issues. He said this was amplified by lack of interest or anxiety.
He did not recommend medications at this time. His fine motor skills was average nothing to worry about. They did a lot of different tests for the processing speed and the diagnosis was that it was low average. The Dr. Said the results were skewed because of Ds refusing to take risks to answer questions - meaning he would answer only if he was sure of the answer. So most of the questions he answered were right but he answered too few I the given amount of time.

So I am not sure if this testing gave us any new perspective but at least it ruled out any other disorders. DS is currently in a new school seems happy except in Math which he says is a repetition of what he knows. Likes working with his math tutor twice a week. Loving martial arts and got into the Lego FLL club at school. So far 3 weeks into school has been good.