I appreciate your honesty. I'm dissapointed of course because I think this is something that would really help my son (and me). He struggles to make friends in his normal social groups that have similar interests.

I really wish I had persued this earlier, I think it would have been much easier. A video of a four year old playing 'Beowulf' with his lego minifigures for instance if I had thought to do it at the time. Now I have no idea. He is a bookworm (is LOVING the "dissapearing spoon" book right now) perhaps we will think about something like that. He loves science and has been interested in black holes for several years, perhaps he could do something on that.

I think I will still try though. Thanks for your help.