Welcome back - but I'm sorry to hear your family is having such a difficult time. How is your DH now?

I can't answer your DYS questions, but it doesn't sound like an easily remediable situation in that school, does it? Is homeschooling a possibility? Would you trust your DD to be alone working at home for enough time to let you combine that with still working, or is your DH at home now, or...?

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