You don't have to agree to anything you don't agree with. You don't have to sign anything you don't agree with.
If they continue to insist on the ED label, you can ask to break and continue the meeting after you have your outside testing results to confirm or refute that finding. I would suggest bringing that outside professional and/or an advocate to the next meeting if you can. This has been very effective for us.
Remember what I said before: they can and should provide the needed services (under RTI or a "building plan") even as you continue to figure out the diagnostic picture. You should not have to accept the ED label in order for accommodations to be put into place.
Remember that this is a process; fate does not hang on any one given meeting. You'll continue to work on this until you have good solutions in place.
DeeDee
