Gosh, I am soooo sorry you and your DD are having these problems. I am also sorry I can't offer any useful commentary even though we may be where you are in a few years--have the same diagnoses at this point (and then some!
. Do you think her taking a year off would help, or just prevent her from ever graduating (and thus also preventing her getting a better job than she might otherwise)? I have heard a number of NPR segments in the last couple of months about how college might not be the best option for some kids (given the current hiring rates of recent grads),
especially if they have skills in other [more practical?] areas.
Best of luck, and hugs, to both of you; I very much
hope you [both] get what you need.
