Thanks for the advice everyone. It was very helpful. DH will be coming with me so I can't use him for an excuse. I will tell the asst. principal that I don't want to make a decision or talk about the decision with my son present. I hope that she will schedule a follow up meeting with me in the next few weeks.
Hopefully my son's black eye won't give the wrong impression. He ran into his sister's head earlier today but he has been telling everyone he was in a fight (since that it much funnier).
I am heading there tomorrow confident in what I want for my son and I hope that they have an open mind. Hopefully I will have a good update (and maybe some happy mail) to share upon our return.
