JOnLaw...this is why I started this thread with "I think I made a mistake." I'm too scared to face her now!.
I never believed...not for a moment. So I don't know what it is like. Santa was just a non-issue in our life growing up...and my husband's as well. I guess I might just tell them both..the little one doens't seem to believe though, so I might spare her the eventual...truth...thanx...I don't know.
I would just stick with telling the older one and deal with the fallout. Although you could wait until closer to Christmas. You can always solve the problem of the little one later.
She's going to find out eventually, if she doesn't really know now, so it's going to be a moot point.
