Oh - one more thing. My male relatives are 'weird' and we've figured out it's probably Asperger's, so I am familiar with it as expressed in my family (brother, father, uncle, cousin, and grandfather all fit the phenotype - all but one of my grandfather's male descendants). She doesn't match them. It's possible, of course, that I just don't recognize it in a girl, but I don't think so. In my family the boys have an odd gait, a weird accent specific to them, and decreased sensitivity to pain but increased sensitivity to physical annoyances in addition to the usual obsessive Aspie traits, and she definitely does not have these.
