When do you know whether a school is a good fit? I should know this after all of our experience with a poor fit, but I'm still so confused. Ds is still complaining that school is boring and that the day takes too long. He just started Montessori school. Not sure what to make of it. We heard the same complaints at the Catholic school before we pulled him. I felt sure at the time that it was due to boredom and lack of challenge. He actually says school is too hard for him now, but I don't think that's the case. I'm not sure if he's just not used to being challenged, if he's just not used to all the writing required, or if he's underchallenged. Either way, I sure wish he was excited and enjoying school like he did his first week.
I hear from my husband and my parents, "well, it's not unusual for kids to not like school. They have to go, so he'll just have to get used to it." In some ways I agree, but I also know the down side of forcing a child to continue in an educational environment that's not working. We've been there done that already! I'd like to think we've learned a thing or two from that lesson.
What constitutes a "good try" at a school? When do you knwo you've REALLY given it a good shot? When do you know it's the wrong environment and that you need a change? Could it be that our son just isn't going to like school no matter where he is? I can't imagine this as he LOVES to learn. If there's another option, do you definitely give it a shot, even if it's possibly another bad fit? By changing schools yet again next year, am I teaching ds that you don't have to stick with things, even if you don't always like them?
I know I've posted about this school issue multiple times, but I'm just not sure what to do. Is 5 months enough time to make a good judgement about a school's fit for our son? I want him to be excited about going to school; to enjoy learning...it's just not happening. This seems like such a wonderful school; I'm not sure why it's not working for him.
As always, thank you for your insight!