He was a college graduate. He has a nice home and life. I would consider him to be successful but...One time his Mom said to me she was disappointed he didn't do more. Another time he said, He seems to take the easy way.
This is exactly it!
I have two younger brothers, one who is MG, one who is HG+ and then there's me, also HG+.
My MG brother has 3 graduate degrees, multiple publications and is incredibly successful in his field.
my HG+ brother (much younger...) just finished his bachelors and has no real motivation to go do
anything (other than frisbee golf and snowboard). He's living in my Mom's basement, half-heartedly working on a grad degree because he doesn't know what else to do. He spontaneously figured out powers of 2 to 2^12 at 5. But he got no challenge in school
It took me a long time to figure out what I wanted to do in life. At least a part of that I blame on the fact that I had to be something I wasn't to attempt to fit in during school. Although I knew I enjoyed a challenge, I didn't know how to get one.
My MG brother got lots of challenge in school; he's motivated and successful.
I won't say that my other brother isn't successful, but he's not motivated.