Yeah, what they said! Most of my points have been made by others, probably because I got their advice first! LOL Seriously, before you run out and buy, buy, buy (curriculum junkie is a serious affliction! Take some time to figure out how your kiddo learns. It will save you tons of money and even more in headaches! I think that most of these kids require flexibility first and foremost.
Grins ideas about incorporating the bad stuff into the good stuff is something we do a lot. If you need ideas how to "sugarcoat" a particular subject there are some experts on here.
Most of all, remember to enjoy the ride!