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Hi, I'm new here. I'm really tired of dealing with schools right now and I could pull my hair out. My older child, age 7, has tested Gifted. Last year he was in a one day a week pull out. It really wasn't enough for him. Also, my younger, age 6 now, was getting into trouble in Kindergarten for being too hyperactive. I spent a lot of time dealing with a Gifted Advocate, getting him tested, and working with him last year.
I heard about this new Environmental Charter School opening up. I thought this would be perfect. They do Terra Novas twice a year to make sure kids are proceeding at appropriate levels, they have a lot of animal-centered projects (older son loves animals), and they have a lot of hands-on learning and park trips(perfect for the younger one).
Unfortunately, this has not been as ideal as I hoped. The transition was difficult on the older son, who has suddenly developed behavior problems, and his GIEP has fallen by the wayside. The behavior problems definitely make me think of 2e (tantrums and inability to speak about his frustration when upset). I finally got together all the right people in the room for this coming Wednesday, (Behavior therapist, Gifted Advocate, teacher, special ed teacher, curriculum director) and I was beginning to feel semi-good that this will all work out, when I find out the younger is having issues.
Younger child was tested last year for Gifted, but did not qualify. However, his subtest scores on the WPPSI ranged from a 7 on the block design, to a 16 in the general IQ. I am convinced he needs to be tested again soon to determine if it was inattention or an LD that caused the issues. Now, he scored a 39 out of 40 on the verbal Terra Nova, but he is put with the average students in the reading groups. His teacher tells me there are several factors why he is in the reading group he is in, but has not specifically told me the factors except for difficulty staying on task. Suddenly, my child is wandering away from his class to the nurses office, being defiant during certain classes, and in general having issues focusing in school.
I'm really utterly exhausted and overwhelmed. I've been working hard at the older one, because he seemed to need it the most. Now I feel like I have to go back to the drawing board with the younger. Does anyone have any advice? Ideas? I could use it right now.
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Welcome Lya.
I'm running out the door but wanted to say a quick hi. It does feel like you plug the one hole in the dam and another pops out and squirts water. Not enough hands!
Will check back later, I'm sure others will have some good thoughts for you.........
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we can share mylanita!
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Yes, I got a full report.
He has a 120 FSIQ, 121 VIQ, and 105 PIQ. I am concerned. It seems a wonder that even with a 7 he managed to get a 120 FSIQ.
His subtest scores were:
Verbal Tests Information 12 Vocabulary 15 Word Reasoning 14
Performance Tests Block Design 7 Matrix Reasoning 14 Picture Concepts 12
Performance Speed Coding 16
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Welcome!!!
When I was at that age, I argued with the teacher, then walked out of school!! If things were going way to slow, then I just zoned out.
There are lots of practicing parents on here who have BTDT, so the only thing I can add is that you should check out Ruf's and Gross's books on gifted kids.
The sections on actual kids' case histories are powerful. The part on the rate at which kids learn and how x% of their time is wasted is something to keep in mind. For MG+ kids, over 90% of their time is wasted in age-peer class groups.
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Thank you for the replies.:) I appreciate the support. I will continue to work with the school to deal with this.:/
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As Austin suggests, having your ds in a reading group that is below his level is going to do nothing other than make him that much more in-attentive!!
Staying on task means pretty much zero to a 6 year old. They have to be engaged with the material to give a darn. Hang in there, good luck with both of your kiddos! (I think you should continue to press the point of getting more specifics on 'trouble' areas for the youngest. Barring major reasons to not move him up, he should at least be given a try to see if this addresses the boredom issue.)
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So...first positive news about DS7. He came home yesterday and said his teacher let anyone who wanted to do division. He looked so happy and immediately in these number discription blocks started writing things like 400 <division symbol> 4 = 100. I have never seen a kid so excited to do division.
I left a message for DS6's teacher with a lot more questions about him supposedly saying a bad word on Monday. He honestly doesn't think he did, and he was in the bathroom at the time, so she got second-hand information. Unfortunately, because he remembers things in odd ways, I think one of the three following actually happened:
A) He didn't say it, the boy misheard, and when the teacher asked DS6 about it he gave her one of his "I'm not really paying attention but I'm nodding my head" things that he does.
B) He said it, possibly repeating something he'd heard, and then he admitted to it, but barely remembers the incident so swears he didn't. (Once again, very like DS6, if something happened at the beginning of the day).
C) He is, possibly, lying. I put this last because of how sure he is he didn't say it. But, his memories tend to get all jumbled about these things...so it's more likely B.
Should I explore 2e cause of the memory issues?
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Wow, so glad to hear about DS7 good day!
As for DS6, what is he like when you try to teach him at home? Of course that means you will have to come up with a scheme that includes DS7, but before you start chasing 2e, you need really detailed 'noticings' about DS6's learning process. The best way to do that is daily 10 minutes afterschool learning sessions.
A pain, but not compared to the rest of the pain your family is in.
So glad you found us, Grinity
Coaching available, at SchoolSuccessSolutions.com
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Here are the things that our meeting came up with. I am sharing them because I think a couple of the ideas are very cool. DS7 did really well on his first day with this:
1. Utilize pre-testing to determine DS7's present levels of performance at the onset of a new unit. Use test data to differentiate instruction in an attempt to keep DS7 academically engaged, focused, and on task. 2. Implement a "trip stick" program in class. DS7 will be able to use 3 "trip sticks" daily for a 5 minute period of reading in Mrs. K's book nook. "Trip sticks" will be utilized by DS7 when he is feeling overwhelmed and needs to calm himself down. 3. Introduce a new behavior plan. DS7 will participate in a check in/check out behavior plan. He will be held accountable for all behaviors and will be responsible for getting his chart filled out throughout the school day across all environments. DS7 will take home a copy of each daily sheet to be signed by mom. 4. Maintain high expectations for DS7's academic performance. DS7 will complete a self-assessment rubric when completing classwork to make sure that he is always giving 100%. This will also help with DS7's self-monitoring skills. 5. Give DS7 responsibilty. DS7 will act as a class timekeeper. He will follow the posted daily schedule and provide a 5 minute warning before transitions. This job will provide DS7 with added responsibility and help to decrease anxiety over transition. Mrs. K may also allow DS7 to share a special fact at each 5 minute warning.
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