Thank you for your responses, Portia and Polarbear. Who performs OT evaluations? Also, any ideas for terms to use for googling independent educational testing?
We're super relaxed homeschoolers, so trust me, she reads all for pleasure
I just like to make suggestions or leave some options laying around that I know she'll like (such as the Bindin Irwin series that I got on an inter library loan).
The perfectionism thing is tricky. With drawing and painting and the like she typically won't even attempt to do it any more, or if she does it's just a quick doodle and she's done. With something like math, if she doesn't know the answer she immediately gives up and refuses to make an attempt or listen to some instruction. Perhaps there's a better word than "perfectionism" for that.
Thank you both. I'm still not sure what we'll end up doing, but I really appreciate your thoughts.