My rising fourth grader was denied access to the math gifted program. His NWEA scores are at the 99% for kids three grades older than he. He does struggle with reading comprehension and as such this affects his ability to do math word problems. He is on the spectrum.
I've gotten a ton of push back from the school district including refusal to put him on an IEP though he has a disability covered under IDEA.
The disability itself isn't what's covered. Rather, there has to be an assessment of needs, completed by the school district, that specifies the educational problems caused by the disability. If a person has autism but it doesn't appear to affect his education, he doesn't need an IEP. (However, I think this is going to be rare in the early grades.) If a person has autism, the right thing to do is ask how the autism affects his ability to "do school," in all its aspects, and then remediate the missing skills via an IEP.
Did the school refuse to evaluate him for an IEP, or did they evaluate and refuse to identify him? That makes a difference in how to proceed. The book From Emotions to Advocacy is helpful in understanding this process. If they refused to evaluate him, did you make the request in writing? They are not obligated to honor an oral request (although not doing so raises red flags for me in that it means they're not trying to help you).
The reading comprehension issue should be remediated; do you have data about how far behind he is? The needs assessment is a data-driven process, and you can bring your private eval in as part of that assessment
With this recent development I have had it. I have a referral meeting next week. I am considering having legal representation.
I'm not sure what a referral meeting is-- we don't have anything called that here. What is the meeting agenda?
I would encourage you to start by trying to find an educational advocate rather than a lawyer. Here, if you bring a lawyer, they bring theirs, and it escalates from there. We have found that an educational advocate can sometimes keep things from getting too oppositional.
I know I am in a gray area with regards to the law. They don't have to maximize his education but my claim is that his disability prevents him from receiving the appropriate instruction/education.
Don't ever make the claim of "maximal" or "best"-- cling to the word "appropriate." A "free appropriate public education" (FAPE) is what's mandated by law. But that does include appropriate math instruction, as well as remediation for the issues resulting from the autism spectrum disorder. This includes "functional" as well as academic skills-- including social skills, language, participation skills, self-control, anything that affects his ability to function in a classroom.
HTH,
DeeDee