DD8 got sent to the office umpteen bazillion times last year; the two previous years, only a couple of times in the beginning of the year. The difference was a new teacher who didn't get DD at all, or care to work with her on her behavior. Although DD was not suspended, we were not allowed to go back to that school this year thanks to a concerted campaign by that teacher (even though I think with a different teacher it might have been fine). We were very disappointed to see this from an expensive private school where the gist of the marketing campaign is individual attention. Not that they should have to put up with just anything, of course, but it made sense to me to pay for a private school in hopes of getting that as well as possibly more experienced and kinder teachers. Not so. I'm not sure it would have worked better in public school with an IEP, but it could not have been any worse. I hope Angie's List or something starts tracking teachers for this kind of thing--it would be great to be able, ahead of time, to find teachers who might work best for 2e kids rather than just rolling the dice.