I'm sure it's different for different families, but we didn't celebrate DS's acceptance in DYS either, though he was young when accepted (5). It wasn't anything he did; it's just who he is, and we are grateful for the support. We don't have any other kids. My DH and I were extremely happy to have access to help with advocacy, and we've probably benefitted the most from learning from other parents. DS is just 8 now, and I think that the program gets more interesting to the kids when they are a bit older and really start making friends. This too depends on the kid -- this past year was the first year that our DS showed any interest in making close friends with anyone.
ETA: Congrats to you and your DD! It is a really great program and I hope you get a lot of use out of it.
Last edited by st pauli girl; 03/21/12 08:11 PM.