I didn't read all, so forgive me if someone suggested this already. What about an Eschool? In Novemeber we decided that K wasn't working for our ds in the public school. I had never given homeschooling a thought until we realized how miserable he was and what a poor fit the ps was for him. We enrolled him in an online charter school and he was immediately moved to 1st grade,where he has since just about finished the entire 1st grade year in just 5months and is able to work the rest of the year on whatever his heart desires. It's great b/c and all the materials and curriculum are provided at no cost and he's able to work at his own pace. They offer plenty of enrichment opporturnities as well.
good luck.

Last edited by mom22boys; 04/11/11 06:59 PM.