Maybe set up a "least-worst" comparison after a wild brainstorming session to come up with ALL of the pros and cons (no matter how small, weird, improbable, or insignificant they seem to an adult) and then base a decision on that?


Might be a good idea to do some long, and very RELAXING physical activity beforehand, too.

That way the lines of communication are likely to be as good as they possibly can be.


It's hard when there isn't an "Un-Do" feature on a life choice.



Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.