Thanks everyone --- we met today with the counselor and he had a whole host of ideas that will help. The principal is also very receptive to meeting with us and bringing along a bunch of other staff to the meeting.

He said the grade skip would not be in her favor at this point because of her emotions, it would just be "too much" at this point. I think though, because the school is going to work with us that we should get some much needed resources/differentiation.

Thanks again!