I go to a school that supports children with behavioral disorders, emotional problames, LD's, and even people who are twice-exceptional. My teacher realizes that I am 3 grades above my reading level and that I'm a great writer, my math teacher realizes that I am a bit above average in mathematics (just a bit!), and yet that I have trouble controlling my emotions. I think your daughter would thrive in a similar school, because they also help people with Autistic Spectrum Disorders, as they have degrees in special eduaction, and even the psychologist is professional, yet not well known (and he also recognizes that I'm gifted). They work with their children exstensively, and I think your daughter's gifts would be supported.