Thank you for all the suggestions and the calm responses. My DH assured me that I was overreacting to the situation because I see future implications that may or may not exist.
We talked about the wind storm and on his prompting created a "secret sign" to use as a reminder for when I think "tornado strength forces" are coming so that he can work on calming down.
We've got the book on hold too so we'll see where this takes us . . .
He had a few small incidences today and I realized he's often like a car with the accelerator stuck down. He may start off way behind the pack so he races to catch up and ends up leaving everyone behind. He does this academically and emotionally. Where is that darn cruise control??
