I'm a big believer in praise effort not inborn traits, and Sylvia Rimm has lots to say on this if you want to read more HOWEVER I can't tell you how many people read the Dweck article and jump to the conclusion that they shouldn't talk to their kids about their 'difference' or get testing.
A) How can on get a child into a 'good fit learning environment' without testing to get an idea what that might be (not counting homeschooling and certian amazing schools)
B) If it isn't spoken of, it becomes the "Elephant in the Living Room." Taboo and unspeakable.
When one praises effort, one has to also take account of ability. So it's ok to acknowledge ability while praising effort. KWIM?
Grimity
Sure do! I'll have to look up Sylvia Rimm.
