Kriston,

There are auditory specialists who can specifically do auditory processing tests if you feel strongly that this may be a fit. If you can do this and get it covered by insurance it might be worth it to more quickly rule out or in APD.

And don't worry - I often either feel like I am making a mountain out of a molehill with these things or that I am failing my child by not being more agressive in figuring out what is "wrong". (don't like that word much)