Botchan, My son was non-verbal when initially diagnosed, but by 3 due to ABA therapy was verbal. He does have some executive function deficits (problems with change in routine and transitions mostly) and I cannot tell about his theory of mind deficit. I've always assumed he had a theory of mind deficit since I've been living with the ASD diagnosis for years now, but I'm going to look with more of an open eye.
Artana, My son hates field trips and play days when they are on the horizon also. This time of year (end of the school year) is miserable. He had a field trip and wanted to stay home sick (he went and loved it); they are working on a play and he wants to say his line but not "act" (luckily the teacher is accommodating); recess is not fun anymore due to lack of structure and too many choices. And yes, he is a stickler for rules.
Thanks for the input everyone!!! Nan
