It is a very difficult situation that we found ourselves in a few times. We've changed schools various times always looking for the "right spot". Unfortunately, we've been advised we won't find it in a school here in our town. That our options are to move to another city, or to Homeschool. We are always concerned about moving him from one school to another as well as from Homeschooling to traditional, but our son is very social and blends in on the first day. We too give him many opportunities to give us input, but in the end as his parents we needed to make the final decisions. Good luck, and know you are not alone, many of us have had to make the school moves.